The 10 Day Challenge is finally here! Today is the day, but before you just run and jump into the sack we have a few tips and ideas to help you make the most of your 10 days of passion together! Every couple is entering the challenge with their own story, their own struggles and their own obstacles to overcome. Having sex together 10 days in a row will not erase all of the struggles, but it just might give you a platform to work on them in different ways.
For some of you husbands the idea of having sex with your wife 10 days in a row is a dream come true. As thanks for that dream today, the first day of the challenge I encourage all of you to make it a “her way day”!
Do you know what her way is? Some of you might not have a clue, and if that is case you will have to make sure to find out specifics soon! While this is a generalization if you don’t know specifics I would suggest the following:
Step 1: Start by giving her 20 to 30 minutes to just relax. Yes this is a start for sex. Tell her to take some time for herself while you do something for the family: Play with the kids, make dinner, clean up for (or from) the Super Bowl Party for example
Step 2: Take it slow. Clothes on, kissing, light touch… for a minimum of 15 minutes
Step 3: Every woman has different preferences of which sexual positions bring them the most pleasure. Often the woman on top positions allow her more control of her sensations. Allow her to guide you to what feels right for her.
Step 4: For many women additional stimulation is essential to orgasm. Take your time; tell her to take her time too! Slow down and enjoy!
Step 5: After… We are providing a Scripture reading for each of the 10 days. What you do with this today will set the tone for the rest of the days. I encourage you to take a risk. Pull out your Bible and read the passage out loud to your wife. It doesn’t matter if you read well or not. The experience of togetherness is what is important!
Day 1- Scripture Passage:
Song of Solomon Chapter 1
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