Kate says . . .
As you are enjoying time together this week challenge yourself to speak more about your physical love for one another. Talking sexy or sensuously to your spouse is something many people are uncomfortable with and some people think is simply wrong. Let me be clear, I am not talking about derogatory, demeaning or generally dirty comments. I am talking about fun sexual or sensuous banter between husband and wife.
In the middle of the day share with your spouse how sexy they. Perhaps through a text, a phone call, an email or a note left somewhere for them. Share in detail what you find sexy about them. Share what you are looking forward to doing with them later and what you enjoyed doing with them yesterday! Use words as the special blessing they can be, to encourage thinking about sex with one another.
If you have kids around, depending on the age you can talk in “code.” If they are too old, perhaps you will have to keep the sensuous bantering on a more private level. But don’t let that stop you, find ways to share!
If this is something that seems out of your comfort zone, try simply sharing what you love about your husband or wife’s body. Which parts you love to gaze upon and love to touch. Talking sensuously with your spouse can be a very good thing. It is encouraging to your spouse in general and they will know how much you adore them sexually. We want them to know how much we adore them sexually, don’t we? During the 10 Day Challenge, try using your words to tell him or her!
Day 2- Scripture Passage:
Song of Solomon Chapter 2
Day 2 Giveaway:
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