Day 6- Focus on Pleasing Him

Kate says . . .

Take a chance today to focus solely on your hubby.  Focus on his likes, his needs and his pleasures!   Think about all the things your hubby loves and incorporate them into your time together.  Start in the morning, make him his favorite breakfast.  Help him get all packed and ready for work.  In the evening, put the kids to bed (or send them for some quiet time in their rooms if they are older) and make your hubby’s favorite meal and dessert.

As for the bedroom (or wherever else) focus your time on pleasing your hubby in all ways.  What does he like to see you in or not in?  Set the mood for the things your hubby likes.  What turns him on every time?  Tell him to sit back, relax and enjoy.  Bless him with exploring and doing all the things he loves best.  Be sure to go slow and enjoy watching your husband enjoy what you are doing to and with him.

Focus on your hubby and his pleasure!

Day 6- Scripture Passage:

Song of Solomon Chapter 6

Day 6 Giveaway:

Today’s giveaway prize goes right along with today’s challenge.  Shannon Ethridge’s amazing book the Sexually Confident Wife.


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26 Responses to Day 6- Focus on Pleasing Him
  1. David
    February 10, 2012 | 6:59 am

    Haveing a great time.Connecting. :)
    I pray God’s blessing on all doing the challenge.

  2. Cherl
    February 10, 2012 | 8:40 am

    I love pampering my husband!

  3. Sheila
    February 10, 2012 | 9:28 am

    I love to pamper and please my hubby! He needs it to relax and enjoy a quiet and close one flesh experience sometimes!
    Thanks for all of your suggestions and info! I love your site/blogs!

    • Brad
      February 11, 2012 | 9:06 am

      Thanks for your comment Shelia! You WON the Day 6 giveaway! We’ll send you an email with details! Blessings!

  4. Mike
    February 10, 2012 | 10:02 am

    As a guy, gotta say, great advice! (I think I know what’s coming next though).

  5. Wendi
    February 10, 2012 | 10:18 am

    This is great advice. Way to many women are concerned about their needs and forget about their husbands needs.
    My Man is worth it. I try to keep my husband my number two focus, second only to God :)

  6. gabby
    February 10, 2012 | 10:35 am

    Thanks for all this wonderful advice.

  7. Valerie
    February 10, 2012 | 10:48 am

    This week has been amazing! I think the difference is I’m focusing on my hubby more and my kids less (in a good way). Also, I LOVE this book, but lent it to a friend and she moved, I’d love another copy :)

    • Brad
      February 10, 2012 | 9:37 pm

      Valerie,
      Kids a way of creeping up the priority list! They need us all the time! It is easy to forget how much our spouse needs us too!

  8. Adam
    February 10, 2012 | 10:52 am

    Thanks for this series. You guys are really helping us to show the love of Christ in marriage.

  9. Christy M
    February 10, 2012 | 11:02 am

    Love focusing on my hubby b/c I know he loves it and would do the same for me!

  10. Monica
    February 10, 2012 | 11:07 am

    Great advice. Cant wait to make my hubby feel special today :)

  11. Melissa R.
    February 10, 2012 | 12:54 pm

    I’ve been waiting for this day! Thanks for all of these great tips! :)

  12. jessica
    February 10, 2012 | 1:09 pm

    Loving the challenges and would love to recieve this giveaway.

  13. cathy
    February 10, 2012 | 1:41 pm

    Can’t believe it is day 6 already! We are loving this challenge.

  14. Laura
    February 10, 2012 | 3:35 pm

    Would love to read that book! I’m enjoying the challenge- we had to stop for health reasons but are planning on picking it up again soon ;)

  15. de
    February 10, 2012 | 6:06 pm

    Loving all your ideas!

  16. Troy
    February 10, 2012 | 9:08 pm

    I enjoy being focused on.

  17. Steve and Karen
    February 10, 2012 | 9:31 pm

    Last night we enjoyed climbing over the wall. This has been a true blessing. We have been married over 30 years and I have learned some things about my wife’s preferences I never knew! Thanks much!

    • Brad
      February 10, 2012 | 9:36 pm

      That’s great! We always have room to learn! I know that every time that Kate and I do the challenge we learn new things!
      Thanks for your comment!

  18. David & Dainne
    February 10, 2012 | 9:42 pm

    Do you tell the kids that tomorrow night we’ll put Daddy in his room and I’ll make dinner for you?..or my husband said, we’ll go in our room and the kids can make dinner for themselves! hahaha…we had a good laugh. We really do appreciate your site…keep up the good work!

  19. Crafty Mama
    February 10, 2012 | 10:21 pm

    This is always a hard thing for me. I definitely need to work on this one! :)

  20. Mike
    February 11, 2012 | 8:52 am

    Wow, my wife really put a ton of thought into day 6 I feel like I am so special to her. She filled my love tank in one day to overflowing and now my natural desire is to fill hers today. Thank you!

    • Brad
      February 11, 2012 | 9:20 am

      Mike,
      That is awesome to hear! That is one of the real benefits of the 10 Day Challenge, as one intimacy increases the others do too!!!

  21. Alison
    April 30, 2012 | 5:41 pm

    We were on day 6 yesterday and it just happend to be my DHs birthday yesterday. Four more days to go. Wish me luck

    • Kate
      May 2, 2012 | 1:40 pm

      Hi Alison! We are praying for you! Would love to hear how God used the challenge to work in your marriage! Blessings, Kate

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