Kate says . . .
I am a girl with very curly hair. God has blessed me with a beautiful head of blond curls. I have had them for as long as I remember. They are such a part of who I am and who my hubby sees. He has stated on many occasions that my hair is one of the first things that caught his eye. So to say he LOVES my hair is a bit of an understatement.
I have come to discover in my adult years that a flat iron can reform my hair into something very different and I like it! I like it A LOT! It’s just something so different and feels free. Free from the curls and my everyday hairdo. Now I am a mom of 3 kids, homeschooling and running my business on the side, so there aren’t very many times I actually take the time to straighten my hair. It’s just too thick and takes too long. Why am I telling you this, you might wonder???
I LOVE to have my hair straight and my hubby LOVES it curly. He says that my straight hair is very nice, but not the same as curly.
The question I have for you wives is this-do you show your hubby preference in his thoughts and opinions about you?
It is great to make sure that we show our hubby preference in many areas of life. You know those little things in life that he likes just so. Showing your hubby that you know his preferences and have a desire to please him in that way, is an incredible blessing. It is a great way to practice putting his wants and needs above your own.
It is especially nice to show your give your hubby’s preferences about you special consideration. Things such as what outfits he loves you in, what type of lingerie he prefers, if any (but most do prefer it), what type of bra and undies he likes, how he likes your hair, toe nail and finger nails painted, jeans, skirts, etc. It’s not that you have to lose yourself; rather it is finding joy in how your hubby likes to see you.
Not sure what he likes? Ask him? Here are a few questions to try . . .
- How do you like my hair best?
- What outfits do you love on me?
- What sexy but practical things do you like me to wear to bed?
- What is my sexiest feature that you like me to accent?
- Is there an outfit or a look that you would like me to “retire”?
In return spend some time sharing your likes with your hubby. I know there are certain things I love to see my hubby in (and out) of and he knows what they are. When he puts them on I know he is doing so to please me and that makes me feel special and loved. Not to mention I get to stare at my handsome man!
Do you know your husband’s preferences when it comes to you and are you willing to make those a priority? Share what ways you wives have done this for your hubby. Share how that has been a blessing!