4 Ways to Pursue Your Wife

Brad says…

Pursue – (v.) to follow and try to catch or capture someone for usually a long distance or time. Every wife wants to be pursued by her husband, and yet all too often we neglect the mission. Kate’s post, 5 Ways to Initiate with Your Husband gave wives important things they need to be doing, today I want to follow-up with ideas for the guys.

The dating stage of your relationship is naturally filled with pursuing activities. We want our wives to know that we are interested in them. Unfortunately, as I talked about in one of my early posts, many men feel like we can stop pursuing after the wedding because “we’ve caught them right?Pursue My Wife

Pursuing your wife tells her you are invested, you are interested, you care and you want her! Yes, pursuit has some elements of sexual energy in it, but it isn’t all sex. If you are just pursuing your wife for sex you are doing it wrong! You need to pursue her mind, her heart, her soul & her body!

Pursue Her Mind

5 Ways to Initiate With Your Husband

Kate says . . . When I say the word “initiate” what do you think ? When wives hear the word initiate,  sex is one of the top things that comes to mind, understandably so. And yet, there are so many other ways that we can initiate in our marriage. I believe stepping up and being…

4 Ways to Stop Using the “D” Word in Your Marriage

Kate says . . . There are times in every marriage when frustration mounts or hurts develop to the point where we want to say to our spouse “THIS IS SERIOUS!!!” As Brad shared in his post, “Delete the D Word” we feel the need to get out the gigantic highlighter and make our spouse…

Delete the D Word

Brad says… There is one word that does more harm to marriages than almost any other word in the dictionary, and yet I hear couples throwing it out over and over again. They shout it at the top of their lungs. They say it up while throwing their hands up in the air. They whisper…

We have an “issue” in our sex life

Kate says, I am convinced that ALL marriages at some point will have an “issue” in their sex life. I am also certain that if the church was honest, many of the couples would say that the “issues” have been substantial and had the potential to cripple their marriage. Brad and I have had our…

3 Things You Need to Bring About Change in Your Marriage

Kate says . . . “I want to change, know that I need to change, but have no idea how to change.” 1. Pray Nothing is going to happen of your own strength. Well, nothing that is lasting will come from your own strength. If you want to change you are going to need help….

Marriage Operating System

I saw this online and had to share it! Too funny, but the Tech Support’s advice isn’t the best. What advice would you give? Leave it in a comment! (c) we didn’t write this one, but didn’t know who to give credit to….  

You Look Great! No I Don’t

Brad says… Husband; “Wow, Hun you look great.” Wife; “No I don’t.” Every guy I know says that they have had this conversation with their wife countless times. Kate’s post, “I’m Not Attracted to My Husband Anymore“, and my still wildly popular “I Don’t Find My Wife Attractive Anymore” brought up the extremes of dealing…

I’m Not Attracted to My Husband Anymore

Kate says . . . There are a handful of our posts, that even though we wrote them long ago, get comments daily. One of those posts is, I Don’t Find My Wife Attractive Anymore. It is no shocker that attraction and desire are huge in marriage, or is it?? This is the flip-flop post…

I Kissed Dating Hello

Kate says . . . There are a handful of our posts, which even though we wrote them long ago, get comments daily. One of those posts is, I Don’t Find My Wife Attractive Anymore. It is no shocker that attraction and desire are huge issues in marriage, or is it?? This is the flip-flop post…