Category Archives: For Husbands

7 Things To Do For Your Marriage in this New Year

Brad and Kate say . . .

Happy New Year to you!  May 2016 be the best year yet in your marriage. May God’s love and grace permeate every fiber of your being and be infused in your marriage. May your marriage be a testament to who God is and his amazing plan for marriage. On fire marriages can change the world!7 Things To Do For Your Marriage in this New Year

Focus on and appreciate who your spouse IS, instead of focusing on who they are not

God has created your spouse as an amazing individual. Embrace who they are. Even if there are some things that bother you. Let them go. Instead look at all the wonder that God has created in your spouse. Find ways to say how much you appreciate those things.

Be intentional about blessing your spouse every week

Make it a habit and be intentional. Bless your spouse each week and even daily in the ways that speak to them. Don’t sit around waiting for your spouse to bless you, bless them no matter the circumstance. It takes 21 days to make a habit and change a mindset. Become habitual about blessing your spouse!

Plan a getaway in 2016 and don’t let anything stop you

Make time for just the two of you. We have shared many times that we make sure that we get away at least twice a year. Once around our anniversary and at Brad’s birthday since the two are six months apart. We have to look each year to see what time and resources we have-but we do it-every year. There have been times we have taken the kids to a family members for the weekend and stayed home. But we are intentional and don’t let anything stop us.

Sex – Because it will always make the list!

It is just that important. As you reflect on the last year, how can you love and serve your spouse in sexual intimacy. How can you make sex a regular priority in your marriage? Think about it! Sex will bind you in a way that nothing else can!  Trust God’s plan in that. Continue Reading

One Flesh Marriage Christmas Gift Guide to Grow your Marriage

Brad and Kate say… It’s the most wonderful time of the year! With the kids jingle belling, and everything reminding you that you still haven’t found the right gift for your loved one. For some reason Christmas shopping for your husband, or finding that perfect gift for your wife is always one of the biggest… Continue Reading

Fix a Fixer Upper

Brad says… Men love to fix things. We see every issue, every problem as a potential thing that we need to fix. If it is broken, squeaking, or just a pain, we can fix that. This might be true about physical things as long as we have a can of WD-40 and a roll of duct tape.… Continue Reading

We Never Have Sex Anymore

Brad says… One of the most common articles people search for at One Flesh Marriage is “We Haven’t Had Sex in A Year“. These wounded men or women are seeking answers to why their spouse has completely shut them out of physical intimacy. Maybe this is just a vocal minority, or maybe it is just cliche but… Continue Reading

Sticks and Stones and Broken Bones

Brad says…. The playground taught me the biggest lie of all time. “Sticks and Stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” I don’t know who came up with this line, but there isn’t an ounce of truth in it. Words hurt. Words often hurt even more than even sticks and stones… Continue Reading