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Your Secret Sexual Fantasy

Brad says…

What would happen if you actually told your wife the sexual fantasy that pops into your head when you read that title? In “It’s a Gray Issue” Kate reviewed Shannon Ethridge’s new book, The Fantasy Fallacy and talked about issues of sexual fantasies. I haven’t read the book yet, Kate’s been hogging it, but since reading Kate’s post I have been thinking about the positive and negative roles that sexual fantasy can play in marriage.

Truths

  • We all fantasize
  • Many, if not most of us have at one time or another fantasized about sex

So if we all do it, why do we find it so difficult to share these sexual fantasies with our wife? The problem is we have been trained that all sexual fantasy is sinful. Continue Reading