Tag Archives: Pain

Sticks and Stones and Broken Bones

Brad says….

The playground taught me the biggest lie of all time. “Sticks and Stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” I don’t know who came up with this line, but there isn’t an ounce of truth in it.

Words hurt. Words often hurt even more than even sticks and stones ever could.Sticks and Stones and Broken Bones

I wish everyone learned that lesson when they were kids on the playground. Unfortunately, far too many husbands missed it and so years later the same mouth they use to kiss their wife they use to hurt her too.

In The Heat of the Moment

“The argument is happening, the emotions are hot, and the words just start flying.” That is how many men “excuse” the fact that they called their wife a b***h, or other horrible words. Continue Reading

That Still Hurts

Kate says . . . . We all have them! Those things in the past that cut deep. So deep that when we think on them now, we start to feel the same emotions well up in us that did when we first experienced the hurt. We women tend to connect to our life experiences… Continue Reading

Hurt’s Opportunity

Kate says . . . What do we do when our spouse does something (perhaps sin is involved) and we are hurt in the process? We want them to step up and take responsibility. We want them to do their time for what they have done. Have you ever felt like this is your marriage?… Continue Reading