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Your Secret Sexual Fantasy

Brad says…

What would happen if you actually told your wife the sexual fantasy that pops into your head when you read that title? In “It’s a Gray Issue” Kate reviewed Shannon Ethridge’s new book, The Fantasy Fallacy and talked about issues of sexual fantasies. I haven’t read the book yet, Kate’s been hogging it, but since reading Kate’s post I have been thinking about the positive and negative roles that sexual fantasy can play in marriage.


  • We all fantasize
  • Many, if not most of us have at one time or another fantasized about sex

So if we all do it, why do we find it so difficult to share these sexual fantasies with our wife? The problem is we have been trained that all sexual fantasy is sinful. Continue Reading

Four Ways to Destroy Your Marriage

Brad says… Does your marriage have cancer? Kate’s post, “Flirting with Disaster” talked about temptations that can enter into your marriage from innocent avenues and then snowball into huge issues. This warning is very important to heed for all husbands. These issues may start small but they can become a cancer in your marriage. Cancer… Continue Reading

Help Each Other Up

Marriage: Mission Possible Today Stu & Lisa Gray from The Stupendous Marriage Show will be sharing their Marriage: Mission Possible . . . If there was only one thing from the story of your marriage that you could share, what would it be? What lesson learned, revelation, heart change or profound moment is a testament to God’s plan… Continue Reading

A Story of Zing 1 & Zing 2

Brad says… Right before this year’s 10 Day Challenge, I cautioned husbands about a desire to “add a new page to their sexual playbook.”  In 10 Day Challenge Pregame Rules I told husbands that this might not be the time to introduce a new idea into the bedroom. Now that the 10 day challenge is a… Continue Reading